Check out the minion method for fire lighting (and maintaining heat) on Youtube as a started.
Set you wood in chunks - not chips - in or under the coals not on top of them so that they release through the cook. I am one who doesn't cook over water and have actually removed the water pan entirely (cos I am lazy and it makes a mess when water and fat combine through the cook). Check out the ceramic plates or even a foil covered tray as a heat sink.
If you want a really easy time have a look at forced air systems and also wireless thermometers.
You want to also check out how to how to season your WSM as this will happen over time but you can do some things early on to help. some like to run a first blast with all vents fully open on a full basket of coal - there is a debate if this adds anything but I did it and it didn't hurt.
The amount of coal depends on your cook but if you get a decent brand (I swear by heat beads) you can fill a basket and then just close the vents at the end of the cook which will stop the burn so you can salvage whatever is left before the next cook - I am doing this tonight and have a good base to start my fire tomorrow after cooking ribs last weekend over a full basket.
I am sure that there is lots more and this forum, Youtube and
http://www.virtualweberbullet.com/ have been an endless sort of support.